The Spiritual Ego: Releasing the Illusion of Hierarchy 🧘‍♀️🌟

In the spiritual community, we often hear phrases like “They’re just a baby soul,” or “She’s not very evolved.” On the surface, these statements might seem harmless—even insightful. But if we take a step back, we can begin to recognize them for what they are: subtle expressions of the spiritual ego. 😌

The spiritual ego is sneaky. It doesn’t show up dressed in flashy materialism or worldly arrogance. Instead, it cloaks itself in enlightenment, wrapped in robes of “wisdom” that quietly whisper, I am better, I am more aware, I am more evolved.

But here’s the truth: any time we place ourselves above another, we’ve stepped out of alignment with love. 💗

The Trap of Spiritual Hierarchy 🪜✨

It’s easy to look around and wonder why the world still seems so filled with anger, greed, materialism, or unconscious behavior. If we’re not careful, that wondering turns into judgment. Why aren’t they waking up? Why don’t they see what I see?

But here’s a radical shift in perspective: What if they are living their soul’s exact purpose—for their highest and best good?

We don’t know whether someone is an old soul returning to experience play and lightness or a new soul here for their very first incarnation. And we don’t need to know. 🙏

The idea that we can assess someone’s spiritual depth based on their behavior is, in itself, an illusion of ego. The very act of ranking souls creates a divide that goes against the unity we’re all seeking.

Judgment as a Mirror 🪞💭

Here’s where the real soul work begins: When you feel judgment arise, take a breath.Observe.Witness.

Ask yourself:✨ What is this reflecting within me?✨ What part of me still needs healing?✨ Is there something I need to forgive, release, or let go of?

Every time we pass judgment on another, we’re holding up a mirror to our own inner world. That doesn’t mean we’re bad or broken—it just means we’re still human. 💫

And let’s be honest: being human is no small task.

When Spiritual Spaces Become Judgmental 🌀

Even in spiritual or faith-based communities, judgment can seep in. I’ve seen it firsthand—and I’ve felt it, too. Groups forming within groups. Words disguised as wisdom are used to elevate one’s place in the hierarchy. It can be painful to witness, let alone experience.

I’ve been in spaces where others pointed out the sliver in my eye while ignoring the log in their own. But instead of closing my heart, I’ve learned to use these moments as powerful teachers. They remind me to stay humble, stay loving, and most of all—stay present with my own healing. 🌱

Forgive Yourself Instantly 🌬️💗

When you catch yourself judging, don't spiral into guilt. Just pause and recognize. Then say something loving to your human self like:

“It’s okay. I’m learning. I see what happened, and I forgive myself.”

The more we practice this, the quieter the voice of judgment becomes. Over time, it’s replaced with something softer—compassion, curiosity, and true spiritual maturity. 🌈

Everyone Is Living Their Divine Purpose 💫

The people who trigger us? The ones whose lifestyles seem totally misaligned with our values?They’re not spiritual mistakes. They’re playing their divine role—often as contrast, catalysts, and mirrors for our growth. Their presence gives us an opportunity to deepen our acceptance, compassion, and self-awareness.

Not everyone is here to live life the way we would. And that’s okay. That’s beautiful, even.

Let’s Return to Unity 🌍💞

So the next time you feel the urge to label someone as unevolved or "just not there yet," gently come back to your center.

Ask yourself:

🌿 Can I observe instead of judge?🌿 Can I love without needing to understand?🌿 Can I see the soul, not the story?

Because the truth is, every soul is sacred, no matter where they are on their journey. And when we release the illusion of hierarchy, we remember what we’ve known all along:

We’re all walking each other home. – Ram Dass